What to look for on a tour of a Citrus County community

In this article

1. Use your senses first
2. The questions families forget to ask
3. Bring your parent if you can
4. Trust the second visit

A tour is the moment the brochures stop mattering. Twenty minutes inside a community tells you more than a week of websites. The trouble is that families walk in nervous, get shown the nice dining room, and leave without asking the questions that actually predict whether their parent will be happy and safe.

Here is what to pay attention to, and what to ask before you sign anything.

Use your senses first

Before anyone says a word, notice the room.

• What does it smell like? A clean community smells like nothing in particular. A persistent odor masked by air freshener is a staffing tell.
• Are residents out and about? People in the common areas, talking, doing something, is a good sign. A quiet hallway at midday is not.
• How do staff talk to residents? Watch an unscripted interaction. Do they use names? Do they crouch to eye level? Is anyone rushed or short?
• Does it feel like a home or a hospital? You want lived in, not clinical.

The questions families forget to ask

The pleasant questions get answered on every tour. These are the ones that matter and rarely come up:

• Who actually runs this place, and will I be able to reach them? Ask for the administrator by name. At our communities you can call Lauren in Homosassa or Ali in Crystal River directly. That is the difference between a real answer and a call center.
• How long has the care staff been here? Low turnover means your parent sees the same faces. High turnover means strangers giving intimate care.
• What happens if my parent's needs change? If memory declines, do they have to move out? Both of our communities offer assisted living and memory care under one roof, so the answer should be no second move across town.
• How are medications handled? Who stores them, who gives them, and how do you prevent a missed or doubled dose?
• What does a normal day look like? Ask to see today's activity schedule, not a sample one. Then ask how many residents actually showed up.
• How do you reach me if something happens at 2am? You want a clear answer, not a vague one.

Bring your parent if you can

If your parent is able to visit, bring them. Watch how they react to the space and the people. Their gut read is data you cannot get any other way, and being part of the choice makes the eventual move far easier.

Trust the second visit

If the first tour goes well, come back, ideally unannounced, at a different time of day. A community that looks good on a scheduled Tuesday at 11am and still looks good on an unscheduled Saturday is one you can trust.

You are welcome to do exactly that with us. Tour any day, ask the blunt questions, and come back whenever you like.

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Written by Cameron Hernando Clark, Community Relations Director at The Manors of Citrus. To set up a visit, call Sugarmill Manor at (352) 382-2531 or The Gardens at (352) 794-7601, or schedule a tour.

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Written by

Cameron Hernando Clark

Community Relations Director

Cameron Hernando Clark is the Community Relations Director for The Manors of Citrus. He writes this family guide to help Citrus County families make sense of assisted living and memory care, drawing on the day to day of running two family owned communities on Florida's Nature Coast.